Donating Embryos

Molly • IVF/ICSI 2015 👶 Jan 2016 FET 2020 👶April 2021
My husband and I did <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>, we were blessed to get pregnant on the 1st round. We currently have 8 embryos left and with any luck we will have 1-2 more babies with those embryos. My sweet husband just told me with 100% confidence that he wants to donate the remaining to an infertile couple in need. I am hesitant and though I have never loved him more for proclaiming such a genuine and giving statement, I worry that I will always wonder about the children of ours that we never will know. On the one hand I would be delighted to share this gift with a couple. on the other I don't know that I could mentally seperate myself from the fact that those embryos are part of us. This is ultimately something that we will be discussing further over the next year or two, but I just wanted people's opinions if it were YOU what would YOU do?