Baby Shower

So my husband’s side of the family wanted to plan and do the the baby shower since my side planned the bridal shower. Well they wanted to know if any of my side wanted to help so I gave them 3 names of two Aunts and a cousin that really wanted to help. However my husband’s side told my mom that they would just text my side about it but they would do everything and that my side could just clean up afterwards 😞. I know it’s going to really hurt my side but there’s not much I can do and it hurts my feelings. They also told my mom the list I gave them of names and addresses was too long. Yes there was like 200 names but I have a huge family and I know most of them won’t be there physically but I know they want to be included. I feel so helpless. 😞😞😞