Should abuse still be considered abuse if the victim doesn’t think it is?

Na

This is a broad question, but I’ll give a situation to get the brain juices flowing. This is completely hypothetical btw

Say there’s a man who hits his wife when she doesn’t do the dishes correctly. She says it’s not abuse because she deserves it.

If you voted depends, give s situation where it should and should not be considered abuse

Bonus questions (not poll)

Does gender make a difference here? The type of abuse (emotional, physical, sexual, etc)

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