Get real about postpartum

I want to hear all the good, bad and ugly about life with baby and changes to your body and just literally everything to do with postpartum. I want to be as mentally prepared as I can be and too many people like to sugar coat things lol I’m talking about the nitty gritty stuff too I’m due with my first baby in 4 weeks and just want the best idea I can possibly have. I know every woman has a different pregnancy, delivery and postpartum experience but all in all I just need the most realistic idea possible.

Also looking back what do you wish you had done or are glad you did to make life easier at home with baby? I’m a planner and I have a hard time coping with my anxiety when I don’t have any experience in new situations and I just want the real raw truth not the nice pretty versions they tell you about in the pregnancy classes or at the doctors