Confidence to initiate what you want

Sooo I used to be sooo good in bed! Dated someone for 5 years and became super dormant and kind of lost my flow. But I was always with dominant guys before my ex... how do I be my sexiest self, what are some good lines to use, how do I bring toys in while having sex? Etc... anything! I always get nervous when a guy looks at me down there but know I’m gorgeous... confidence play tips!!