Finding out the gender???

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Is everyone planing to find out the gender of their baby?? I am undecided whether I want to find out bit my other half and daughter really want to know. should I find out for them or only find put if am 100% sure I want to.....

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Thanks everyone,  I am planning to keep it a surprise,   will make the Labour worthwhile and want my so to tell me the sex once beam is born!

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I didn’t find out with both my boys.. and it’s was the most wonderful experience having everyone guessing the gender throughout my pregnancies. Me and my partner made a fun game out of it, we both written down our predictions when found out we was pregnant (didn’t tell each other what we thought we be having) and we sealed the predictions in a envelope and packed it in my hospital bag for when baby was born and we opened them together to see who was right.lol this time around we won’t be finding out again as we love the surprise. Defo don’t find out if you don’t want to. I honestly don’t understand why everyone’s wants to find out straight away to me it’s the only one real surprise you have in your life it’s amazing when you give birth and they say it’s a boy or it’s a girl you completely shocked, well I was as I though we was having girls both times.lol

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You should only find out if you want to. Most places ask you anyways and if they want to but you don’t they won’t say. I don’t plan to find out this time around I did with my first but want a surprise this time :D

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My husband and I are probably going to wait as well, it’s our first. :)

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Initially, we decided not to find out the sex until birth, because we said it doesn't matter either way. We also plan on raising our child gender creatively. Now we've decided to find out at 20 weeks so that we can get used to knowing and using the gender neutral pronouns, and also do the extra research required if it's a male. We've also decided not to circumcise, and neither of us has cared for a male baby before. 
Anyway, case in point, you may change your mind about it a few times, and whatever you decide should be agreed upon by both of you. ^_^ You can always let him look at the envelope and not tell you until you want to know, but some people are uncomfortable keeping secrets.

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initially my hubby didn’t want to find out so i was like okay i’ll hop on board, but then it came around time for the anatomy scan and i’m just like ugghhhh what do i want?!?! i was legit stressing for days thinking of ways like should i find out and keep it a secret from hubby so he’ll be surprised? or should i get them to write it down and we all find out together with some cute gender reveal stuff orrrrr should i just say nope i don’t want to know and then let it drive me insane for the next few months?! lol. so hubby decided he was super excited and wanted to know, so i got on board and was like okay then let’s find out!! so we did 💗 i’m glad we did honestly because i feel like knowing, just helps me bond sooner with the child you know? cause if i had no idea i would be assuming it’s a different gender and then idk i would just be like indifferent about it. you know? what could happen with you though is, you could get them to write down the gender and you can have your man & child not tell you lol. that would be a super fun secret for them 😂

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At first my boyfriend didn’t want to know but I do so I had to keep it a secret to him. 
I think that would be very hard. 
But now we discussed and we both want to know. When I’m 20 weeks we’re going to Sri Lanka and we’ll let the school for deaf children where I’ve worked as a volunteer multiple times do the gender reveal :) 
I’m glad I could convince my boyfriend to do it this way because for me keeping a secret this big would be difficult (although I can’t believe he wouldn’t change his mind somewhere along the way) 
But maybe they can find out and not tell you?

Finding out the gender???

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