Did you or your so want kids?

I sae this topic once and wanted to get some opinions. I always wanted and baby my so did at one point as well. After having a baby i wanted more later down the road but he said no were married and I think to me its unfair i want our child to grow up with someone. I know adoption is an option but right now I want to carry another one :( We talk about another well plan it for this certain night the day will come and he wont come home hell stay at his moms and tells me he doesnt want another.. I ended up pregnant and he was beyond pissed but loves our newborn baby he did want me to get an abortion but no thanks. This was my little story but i want other womens input what would you do if your so didnt want kids and you werr married?