I'm a sophomore in college and grew up in a really strict home. I get amazing grades, work full time, have a stable boyfriend, good friends, you name it.

I'm dying to do something different for myself, not something huge. I want to dye my hair blonde and get a nose ring.

I just want a change in my life. My boyfriend and his mom basically judged me for it and he said he wouldn't find me attractive anymore if I did that.

He's never said anything like that to me. We've been together for 2 and a half years. It hurt so bad and now idk what I should even do. I just want to be who I want to be... if that makes sense.