Would you work it out?

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My husband and I separated after he abused me a few weeks ago. I’m 17 weeks pregnant with his baby and we also have a 10 month old together. He wants back in our lives and I don’t know what to do. I love him but I don’t know if he will snap again.

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Having children with him don't mean you have to stay with him.
He ABUSED you. No!!! Stay away!! I don't know you, but I can guarantee you deserve better

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Abuse is abuse... stay away!!! I did that for 5 years... finally left... beat decision I ever made!!!

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Doesn't matter what he did, how he did it, or why he did it. He abused you and that's all there is to it. Like my grandma always used to say- I will never let a man hit me twice!

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We need more info. 
1. What type of abuse
2. Why did he do it
3. Was it a spur of the moment, lost control type thing or was he intentionally trying to hurt you (assuming it was physically)
4. If it was physical, what level? Did he push you, or slap you? Or did he beat you up or something crazy? 
So many factors would come into play. Regardless, abuse is abuse and if you let him back, I highly recommend counseling.

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he abused you first of all AND while you were pregnant, big ass no from me. Take your children and go, I hope you can still manage to be happy and teach your children NEVER to be like that or stay with someone like that.

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He needs to prove himself with therapy, completed classes or meetings or whatever they do. And there needs to be a lot of time that passes for him to prove himself if he wants to change. Like years. Years of therapy

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Couples counseling?!

Would you work it out?

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