I went on a first date with a guy who was absolutely awesome. Very sweet, polite, paid for everything. We had sex and it was great. Then he asked me over last night and was totally different. He made me help fold his laundry, slut-shamed me for like an hour (opened the convo with “Have you f*cked any guys since we hung out?”) and then pointed out my biggest insecurity (that my breasts are different sizes). He asked if “everything was okay like, medically” and then proceeded to encourage me to get plastic surgery. I was humiliated and couldn’t believe I fell for his act on the first date. I feel so self conscious and terrible about myself today. Guys are the worst I think I need to take a break from dating.