My stepdad has been in my life since day 1. He married my mom when she was pregnant with me from another guy. He was the first one to hold me when the doctor pulled me out of my Mom during her c section.

He loves me and treats me like I’m his biological daughter.

I have never ever questioned his love for me. Even when I was a stubborn teenager lol.

My biological dad is such an asshole.

At first I was mad at my mom that she didn’t allow me to see my biological father growing up but now as an adult I completely understand her position.

He’s verbally abusive.

Every time he gets mad at me he tells me to never speak to him again and he doesn’t want me for a daughter. I literally have to walk on eggshells around him because he’s like bipolar or something.

I recently came to a conclusion that I have absolutely nothing to gain from having a relationship with my biological father. All hI does is put me down and act a fool. I already have a dad who loves me. So after his recent blow up earlier this week when he told me to fuck off and please never contact him again, I didn’t bother to respond. I simply blocked his number and deleted all his pictures from my phone. I thought I would be sad but I feel freed. He told me to never speak to him again so his wish is going to be granted.

His sisters called me when they figured out I wasn’t responding anymore and I told them that I was done and wouldn’t be contacting my father ever again. They were sad but understood because they know his behavior is unacceptable. I can finally see why my mom left him and never let him see me. The last thing she ever told him as she was leaving him was “You ever come near me or my daughter and I will blow your head off”. My biological father always tried to paint my mother in a bad light. She wasn’t perfect but she did her best to protect me from a psychopath. She was 22 and made a mistake (being with my father) but she and my step dad gave me a wonderful life.

Has anyone else ever had a wonderful stepparent and an asshole bio parent?