I was in the middle of replying when I think you deleted your post. I want to say I’m sorry that a lot of people were blaming you and not being nice. This is what I was going to post originally.

Please if you’re scared of him and this is how he treats you and threatens you please rethink staying with him. If he does things like this often and it’s not just a one time thing then you really need to try to leave him because no one should be treated like this and threatened and made to feel like it’s their fault.

We should not be afraid of those we are with. They should be someone we feel safe with and who treat us right. If you are scared that he will do something if you leave there are people out there who help out in situations like that and they can keep you safe.