Advice for making out?

Question

So I’ve been seeing this guy recently and I really want to pleasure him in a way where he’ll enjoy it BUT not with sex, maybe later on. I don’t really know what turns a guy on and I don’t want it to be awkward if I make the wrong move. Any help or tips?

Answer

Honestly no amount of videos or advice could help with making out or ur first kiss. I literally had my real first kiss awhile ago. And I watched so many videos, and read so many posts similar to the one you’re posting but honestly you have to go with the flow. It was hella awkward at first for me because the guy I did it with hadn’t kissed anyone else before and it was a mess we were both laughing and butting heads but the thing is you have to be 100% comfortable with the person. If you mess up it’s fine because he/she will understand. The only tip I can give u is to GO SLOW in the beginning and just match what the guy/girl is doing you know? Hope this helped :)

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nothing can really prepare you for it, so just do what feels right in the moment. you'll figure it out😉. some tips tho are
1. LIMITED tongue. honestly for your first time, just use a little bit. don't shove it down their throat lol. also, pull your tongue back frequently or else the kiss just gets full of saliva and breath and ugh. just spare the tongue unless they let you know they want more.
2. as far as touching goes, i wouldn't go as far as touching any of the butt or crotch areas for the first time. unless you feel like they'd be okay with it. still, i'd ask beforehand and try to set boundaries. i don't know about most, but my boyfriend LOVES it when i run my fingers through his hair and gently tug. you can also never go wrong with resting a hand on a chest, neck, shoulder, or thigh.
3. it's making out, so it's probably going to get slobbery. fun stuff. personally whenever i feel like both of our mouths are just getting way too wet, i like to pull back and just talk to him. like take a second to swallow that spit and give them a flirty smile before going back in.
that's all i can really think of, maybe talk to them first to set those consent boundaries tho. also, you never know, maybe they'll give you a tip on what they think would be hot! really just go into it and you'll figure it out together. good luck, girlie!

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I would say just use hands. You don’t have to do anything “sexual” but just like put his hand on your thigh or something like that!

Advice for making out?

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