Would you be upset?

Me and my boyfriend of 5 years got pregnant last year and had the name Adalee Lynn picked out for a girl. We would call her adi for short. My name ends in Lee so that’s how I wanted the name to be for a girl and my middle name is Lynn. We lost our baby in November and I still wanna use the names we had picked out. So our friends got pregnant and our naming their daughter Adalynn. I was really upset (not at them because I don’t think they even knew that we had a name VERY similar picked) I’m just so hurt because I picked it because no one around here had a name like that. And I’m sure they’ll call their baby adi too. I just feel like it’s a slap in the face because I lost my baby and now pretty much the name I wanted. I feel like I can’t use it because then our kids would have the exact same names almost and probably both me called adi. Would you be upset?

To be clear I’m not upset at them just upset about the name thing in general. Should I pick a different name or should I just use the name I wanted to begin with?