Am I over reacting and a bad girlfriend ?

Please read and tell me what you think, me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half and recently I’ve not felt too special. He’s at uni and started working and has football so he’s busy all the time so we don’t get full days together ever or really get the chance to go and do things, I normally see him couple days a week late in the evening.. this isn’t his fault I know but what I’ve felt down about is I’ve noticed lack of effort or atleast I’ve not felt he’s been thinking of me... so often I’ll buy him something as a treat, or if I see something I’d think he like or to make him smile ill get it for example ( other day I brought him a £1 cake) I post pictures of us on Instagram, I suggest things with him ect going out, Ill do things just to make him happy ect suggest going to a football game Together. Always give him a blow job with out expecting. Tiny things which could be making him feel good or spending anything from a £1 to a treat or saying or doing something. But he dosent do any of that, he only ever posted a pic of us on Instagram for the first time after he made a mistake and asked another girl to meet up with him. He felt bad and knew he was gonna loose me. In his defence he always tells me he loves me and I’m his everything and has cried for me. And the couple times I see him he makes me happy and I really can tell he loves me. And I can see my self marrying him. But is it wrong I said to him that I wanted to see abit more of effort or ‘ atleast make it seem he’s thinking of me. Especially cause things are hard atm with seeing each other not often. Because he wanted to spend his life with me and wants me to be his forever and I do too but am I wrong to want a bit off time or atleast seem like he misses me?? Or am I over reacting. * To clarify I have told him and he said he is glad I did I just wanted to make sure I didn’t seem a cow or over reacting.