Am I a bad person?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, but I am developed a crush on another guy. I even had a sex dream 😳. It's not like I want it, or like I am going to act upon it, but does it make me a bad person regardless?

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we all get random crushes on people but it's how we handle it that determines if we're a bad person or not. If you know you will not act upon it then dont worry about it

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In my opinion if you can develop feelings for someone else then you aren't in love with the person your with now. In a relationship you should only have heart eyes for your s/o looking at other people in a sexual manner is disrespectful. So personally yes I think it makes you a bad person.

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Out of respect for your man I'd limit or cut contact with your crush. It's not fair to him. You're not a bad person.

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It’s probably just a sexual attraction/crush it should pass. Crushes always fade

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No, I agree with what the other commenter said. Doing one frowned upon thing doesn’t make you a bad person and it’ll all depend on who you ask wether you’re a “bad person.” And also to add even if you did develop a crush, there’s nothing wrong with wanting someone else, depending on if you’re unhappy or not in your current relationship, it may be a sign its time to move on.

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You're not a bad person for thoughts. Actions are what makes you a bad person.  Thoughts like that are normal.

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Your not a bad person but I would limit contact with your crush.

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I mean I've never gotten a crush when I was in love or anything haha but maybe you're over it yaaa know? Want something new🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I a bad person?

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