I need some advice!!!

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We’ve only been on one date and the rest of the time he comes over to hang out.

He’s a very sweet guy in person. We get along so well and he is very couple-y in real life. The problem is how he acts when we arent together. I won’t hear from him until he wants to hang out again. We hang out like 2 times a week. And he’s met my friends, and his friends know about me. When I do message him it’s either ignored or met with blunt replies. Only sometimes he is genuinely sweet over messages.

He had indicated a few times he wants something more than just a hookup. I can’t emphasise how different he is in person to how he is over text.

I told him how I felt last night and it was like talking to a brick wall. He took it as me asking him to talk to me 24/7 which is not what I wanted. Just to not only have genuine conversation when we are “hanging out” to which he responded with “I don’t really feel like texting you all the time”

I don’t know what to do because he is really sweet and genuine in person and then a completely different person when we aren’t together