Told my mother in law that i don’t want her in the room while i give birth, that i just want it to be my husband, doctors and nurses. She called me selfish. I also told her and other family that if they want to come out for the birth we don’t have enough room in our house ( On post German housing 🙄) my family said that’s fine, they want us to have our space. My mother in law flipped out, told me that if she can’t stay with us she won’t come out at all 🙄 I’m totally okay with this because that’s on her. My husband also said he doesn’t care, if she doesn’t want to come out over something stupid that’s on her. Am i being wrong or selfish?