can’t share my feelings

Daria • stressed and depressed

i’m talking to this guy, and he’s really nice and funny, but every time I say i’m upset, he has to be upset too. so i’ll say “i’m really depressed right now” and he’ll say “join the club” or “i’m hella mad too” then i’ll ask what’s wrong, but he never asks me what’s wrong or really does anything. am I being selfish or narcissistic? because that’s what i’m feeling. I just really need a different opinion