I have a bigger sex drive compared to my spouse.

E.g In the last 6 weeks we’ve done the deed 4 times, and in the last week I’ve been rejected 3 times 😔, the excuse I usually get is ‘I’m too tired or I have a headache’. It’s been 13 days since I’ve had any action... 😩

I’m really tired of being rejected. We’re wanting to TTC but I’m at a loss of whether it will ever happen as I honestly don’t think he has the stamina to BD every other day (as is recommended).

I’m just so tired of being rejected and I’m also starting to get angry. We’ve been together for 7 years and I don’t want us to turn into a couple that doesn’t make love (I’ve tried different things, but nothing ever lasts). 😢

Would you mind me asking (those who are in long term, past the honeymoon stage of their relationship) how often you do the deed? Am I asking too much? (I.e 2-3 times a week?).

Update

Thank you for the comments and encouragement ladies. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone and that I’m not asking for too much.

I decide to discuss it properly with him, but he didn’t have anything to say. He did however turn the discussion round to say that it was my fault because of the way that I approach initiating sex is too verbal.... A typical man, refusing to discuss how he feels on the topic and putting the blame on the woman. Although I feel pretty rubbish right now, I refuse to believe that the reason why he always rejects me is my fault. 😢