I am 29 years old, recently married a man I have been with for 9 years and we literally never have sex. I have no sex drive at all and I think his is now dwindling away...

It wasn’t always like this but for the last few years it has been like this. I keep telling myself it’s just a phase, but it’s been going on for too long.

I usually get home fall into our nightly routine and then go to bed. Sometimes we both try just because we feel like we should but it can be awkward.

What is wrong with me? Help!