How do you make time for sex?

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I used to have this pretty active sex life with my husband. This was before we had kids. Now, I can’t even stand it when he wants to because I’m physically exhausted from the day and that’s like the last thing I want to do. I don’t want it to hurt our relationship because I want to but mentally I’m just not really there anymore. The thought of it just makes me irritated.

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I understand completely. I can't just shut off mommy mode.

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We sneak and have sex while the kids are playing. We put them to bed early. The list goes on. I don’t want my marriage to go to shit because I’m a mother. You make time for what’s important to you.

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Make your husband more important then Yourself

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If the kids are upstairs in the bath (they’re old enough to bath by themselves) we get it on downstairs, as soon as they’ve gone to bed we get it on, if he comes home for lunch we get it on, when the kids are outside playing we get it on. Anytime that you have alone together, just get it on 😊

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I felt this way with my ex after my son was born. I wanted sex but his approach annoyed me to the point that I hated him even touching me. My body wanted it but then my brain would say nope. My big thing was his phrase and approach. He would ask if I want to "get frisky" which honestly I don't know any woman that would respond to that favorably cause gross. His approach other than that would to be to come and hug me from behind first thing in the morning while I was brushing my teeth and leak all over my ass while asking if I wanted to get "frisky" I did try to tell him how much that phrase grossed me out and how precum leaking all over my  back and ass while he begs is not a turn on but he never got it. Approach is everything.

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Make time for it

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We do it when our son goes to bed which is like 8:30 so we have like 2 hours to our selves before we go to sleep

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