Mother in law

Is it messed up if i dont want my mother in law in the room when i give birth if i dont even want my own mom there i really wanted to experience w just my partner and if he's not there I would like to be alone my mother in law is just to much sometimes for example she tried to tell me i was eating crackers wrong and my gingerale was not dry enough(which she gave me) seriously... I am super adamant on my decision but then she trys to make me feel bad which i dont not even a little. And also she wont stop telling people im pregnant im only 11w and last time i though i was 14w and had miscarried so ive been keeping it to myself until i am ready to announce she also got us a basinate which i definetly really appreciated but my thank you wasnt good enough i guess but come on it still soo far away i wasnt so gitty about it but i was really appreciative and i'm always feeling bad for everything except the delivery part