I have been ttc with my other have for 5 months now and nothing yet. We want this so badly and have been heart broken every month. I know 5 months isn't as long as some of you ladies on here and I am sending prayers and baby dust to all of you 1 month or 1 year into it!!!! Just curious if you guys think opks or preseed or any other things helped you get your BFP!? I know it's different for everyone but I dont want to buy these crazy expensive opks for nothing if they are a waste.