Getting discouraged

My fiance and I have been trying for 3 months now, he is older than I so he is even more anxious than me. the last 2 months of negative results was tough. He blamed himself and then I blamed myself of course. Even though it's a long shot and we will be excited whatever month we get blessed with a peanut. We were hoping this month would be the month we conceive so we could have a baby due in March like our birthdays lol. Thing is Its stressing me out to much and after this month we agreed to take a break from baby making and enjoy the summer and wedding planning. anyway I just wanted to get my thoughts out and say Good luck and send baby dust to everyone trying to conceive since I'm new to this app ❤❤❤