idk what to make of this?

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haven't spoken to this guy since January because he didn't reply to me and now months later out of the blue he wants to chat and go on a date. I can completely understand if he went through a loss but why does he want to meet now? why me? we didn't exactly talk for long back in Jan so I'm finding this incredibly fishy. thoughts?

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I find it fishy too 🙄. Do you have any mutual friends you could ask about him?

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What’s wrong with it? I will text people I haven’t spoken to in months. Usually I’ll forget but when I read through old messages, I’ll text them

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I find guys like that are after something, personally I don’t take interest and just ignore them

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as someone who's been a victim of men on these sites. I found that most are married and looking to chat/phone sex/meet up for actual sex. either get more in for on him (he could be using fake info) or move on. in my experience it was a military man who would use the apps while out at a training location away from the wife.

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If he truly lost someone close to him I would understand. I lost my dad after taking care of him and I stopped talking to people. I still am bad about it still with my anxiety and all that so it is hard to say what his intentions are. Talk to him s bit more and feel him out if it seems fishy still block there are plenty of other dudes on there

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If you're incredulous of him, don't go on a date. Maybe tell him you're willing to talk more, but that a friendship would need to develop where he can prove he's reliable before a date is on the table. If you don't even think that is worth it, then I'd stop talking to him and move on.

idk what to make of this?

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