We’re supposed to be moving but my bf isn’t helping

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So I bought a house and my bf and I are supposed to be moving this weekend but he’s literally not helped at all. I got him to move some stuff this morning, but that’s it. He made all these promises all week about how we could move in this weekend and he’s just blowing it off. He wants us to go to a fish fry tonight at his brothers and I’m like??????? We have a shit ton of stuff to do for the house still. Like we haven’t moved hardly anything and I still have a couple rooms I want to paint. Obviously I would like to go to a party tonight but like responsibilities...and I know if we go to this party he won’t jsut stay for a couple hours he’s gonna want to stay till like 2 in the morning and be shit faced, because there’s also going to be a poker tournament. I’m thinking about not even going. I swear if I don’t go and he stays out all night while I’m here busting my ass it’s not going to end well for him. I’ve been on the fence about him as it is and this will literally just tip me over the edge. Ugh!