Would Anal count as losing my virginity?

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Okay so my boyfriend and I are both virgins. We both want to have sex with each other really bad. Like we have this emotional connection and just want to be one with each other. So he asked me when I wanted to do it and I said like, when I move in with him.
Im planning to move in once Im 18. Ive snuck him in but I dont want to do it when I sneak him in lol. Cuz I want my first time to be special. I wanna wake up in the morning in his arms instead of him having to leave before the sun rises ya know? 
But anyways he’s coming over in a couple weeks and we’ve talked about anal. We are planning to do it. But I just wanna know if Id still be a virgin since he wouldnt be entering my vj
I know people see virginity differently. I always saw it as when a dick enters your vajayjay but now Im not so sure how I see it 😂 So what do you think?

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you'll be losing your ass virginity.... if you count it as such.

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I agree with Caitlin. If you think of virginity as something you lose the first time you have sex, then I think the answer would be yes. If you feel like virginity is only bound to vaginal sex, then I guess not.

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No because virginity is just a social concept that people use to shame/encourage you.

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I agree that virginity is a concept and can be different things to everyone. But (no pun intended) anal is something that takes a lot of preparation and can be uncomfortable and dangerous if done wrong. If you have your heart set on it, definitely do your research. Otherwise, you can do vaginal sex without being ashamed! Just be safe regardless and never feel pressured to do anything 😊🌈💕

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Virginity is a social construct. 
You can honestly make up any rules about what being a virgin means to you, because it really is different for everyone. I wouldn't sweat it so much though- just make sure it's with someone you care about, trust, and feel comfortable with. Things are gonna feel weird but it's good if you can both laugh about it and be honest when it does.

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It’s your body. You decide what counts.

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The real question is why are you comfortable with ANAL sex but not vaginal sex? Anal isn’t what people hype it up to be. It’s painful and makes you feel like you’re shitting backwards.

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I kinda think that there are different kinds of virginity. Everyone is a virgin with something. I am a skydiving virgin. Your vagina woukd still be a virgin but your ass wouldn't. it all depends on how you look at it.

Would Anal count as losing my virginity?

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