Husbands and birthdays

This man has been so difficult to buy gifts for our entire relationship (17 years) He has a birthday coming up and all morning has sent me pics of disk golf stuff that he has intentions of buying. I would just for once, love to be able to get him something awesome before he gets it himself. I am no longer going to think I am a bad wife because my gifts for him aren't as great as what he gets for me. Would love to hear I am not the only one with a man like this. Also, I think disk golf is so LAME! I wish he would want a pool or hot tub or a camper for himself-just saying.