bored sexually, help

im a virgin and plan to stay a virgin because I am not on birth control and I don’t know, I actually don’t feel the urge to lose my virginity any longer.

But me and my boyfriend basically do the same stuff (everything that’s not intercourse- oral etc) and it’s kind of routine. I don’t have intense orgasms and always have to finish with my own hands and it kinda sucks lately. I also don’t really enjoy going down on him and I’m bored. It’s. Always. The. Same. What can I do ?