Interracial couple- my mom hates it

sarah

The night before I met my boyfriend, which was 8 months ago,my parents were racially profiling my African American boyfriend saying how most statics show that black men are more abusive than any other race and how their all affiliated with drugs and violence. My dad is a cop and did a background check on him and found nothing and was upset when he didn’t find anything on him.Today I found out that I accidentally overcharged my dads credit card and of course I’m paying him back every cent of it and my mom thinks my boyfriend had an influence on it and that she also thinks he made me pay for it and buys him stuff, I paid $12 for his Uber. She told me that “you need to rethink this whole thing” implying to rethink our relationship. It makes me upset how anti black the Latino community is. My boyfriend says he’s sorry that he didn’t meet their expectations and my heart breaks for him. I don’t know what to do, my mom said she doesn’t want me to marry into a lowcome family who’s in debt and that she worries for my future. He can’t go to college at the moment or he doesn’t have a car because of him being in debt so I don’t see him often and usually my parents give me rides to see him and he lives 20 mins away from me and they tell him that they don’t mind. She told me that if I plan on marrying him she doesn’t want me to be broke. My mom says she’s apparently not racist but she loves to racially profile every person who’s not in the Latino community.

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