I'm having relationship issues and I need help

Ok, I don't even know where to start with this...we've been together for 3 years. And I do love him. And he does love me. But I don't know if I can be with him anymore...

1. It's an unhealthy relationship. He pressured me into having Sex with him when I don't want to. He'd ask and ask and ask..finally when I'd just say yes, we do it and he would see that I'm not into it. Then he'd tell me that I should have just told him no and that I shouldn't have lead him on..

(((((I'd say no a million times like what in the actual FUCK!)))))

2. He'd blame me for him spending his money on us when we'd go out to eat but he would suggest it.

3. When we'd be at a family event (my family) he would get so mad and go on his phone because I wouldn't be giving hm enough attention...and he would do this on EVERY special occasion. Prom, homecoming, birthday, Christmas, thanksgiving, July 4th and so on..I love my family and I don't see them often (except for my mom, dad and sister) and for him to treat me like that when everyone is wanting to see me happy is so difficult.

4. We can't go a day without something triggering an argument (sad right?)

5. He'd say that I don't give him enough appreciation

6. Just the way he's talks to me sometimes is just too controlling to me. I don't even know how to explain it.

7.he constantly thinks that I'm going to cheat on him and I have to tell him no

repeatedly.

So when I had enough of this, last month I told him that I wanted to break up and he cried and cried and cried. He would nonstop text me and my mom and say that he doesn't want to be without me. I told him my problems and why I wanted to leave. He said he would change and that he'd never do those things again.

So he talked to my parents and told them that he was sorry, blah, blah, blah... so I gave him ONE MORE CHANCE.

Now it's slowly creeping back up again. He's the type of person to thinks he's always right and thinks that everyone else is stupid but him. So I told him that he was starting the same habits again and then he said "Well, I can't change over night, it's not that easy"

What the hell do I do now. Ughhh please someone help.