Hi guys :)

So I’ve been contemplating this for a few months now.

I’ve recently started seeing this guy about 2 months ago, and we really hit it off. He’s just a year older than me (20, to my 21) and we see each other weekly.

He told me in the beginning that he wasn’t looking for anything exclusive because he is just getting over a bad breakup. Then he told me 2 weeks ago that this would be a friends with benefit thing, if I’m up for it.

But I’ve never had sex. He was my first real kiss. First guy to go down on me. First guy I went down on. I’m not too attached to him yet so I can end things and not feel heartbroken. But I feel like if I do have sex with him, I’d feel attached, cause he would be my first after all.

We communicate really well and he’s super consensual and sweet. :)

Just wanted some outside thoughts and opinions.