Overreacting?

KC

So a lady I work with has constantly been babying me since she found out I was pregnant. I don’t mind being babied (actually I do, but I get over it), but she’s completely over the top. She acts like everything I do is going to hurt the baby despite the many times I told her I’m fine and I know what I can and can’t do. This is not what Bugs me..

So I asked why she needed to baby me seeing as she has 4 of her own kids so she knows what I can do. She says that she thinks I’m spoiled and that I’m in for a rude awakening when my baby is born. I said “what on earth has ever made you think I’m spoiled, I buy everything I want with money I work for?” She didn’t have much of a comment.

She goes on acting like I’m not going to be a good mom because apparently I’m “spoiled”. I just told her I have experience with with kids and I’m perfectly capable of being a mom. She said well “you call me the day after he’s born and let me know” oh my gosh I almost blew up in her face.

Everyone around knew that I was mad about it and have stayed mad all day. Am I crazy for being mad about it? I don’t even know what I’ve done that makes her think I’m spoiled. I drive a new vehicle but I pay for it myself and I split all the other bills with my husband. She used to say I was spoiled because my mom bought me a Kate Spade purse this last Christmas but that’s literally the first designer bag I’ve ever had in my life. She doesn’t know me well enough to get to decide how good of a Mom I’ll be.