Hey ladies

Sooo... I’m in a committed relationship with a guy and we’ve been together for 9 years (so much history)...but anyways...we both love each other and talk about marriage and starting our family together (we’ve been grinding and getting our financial situation up to par before popping out any babies) but the sex is just not satisfying to me :(

Don’t get me wrong he’s a great lover he goes out of his way to try to please me but nothing gets me to the big “O”... and I’ve only had a few partners before him and I’ve never had an orgasm but I’m worried that this will cause a strain down the line ...he thinks I’m not attracted to him sexually and it’s starting to affect our relationship. I don’t even desire him or want to “do it” because to me it’s pointless because I’m never satisfied afterwards but I’m also not a selfish b🤫tch either, so I make sure I give him some for his needs but he gets upset because emotionally I’m not there 😑...what would y’all do if y’all were going through this ???

Sincerely,