DH worried about having sex?!

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Ok so ever since iv been pregnant DH always worries about having sex and that he'll hurt the baby or that maybe "the baby will know". He works away, only a week at a time then a week home, so it drives me crazy as it is when his away, let alone when his home and nothing happens :(. Even if we do, its all over as quickly as it started.. I also feel forgotten about as im more than happy to pleasure him.. Yet nothing happens for me... No foreplay nothing, he just jumps straight in :/. I think its more frustrating than anything, iv explained to him that its completly fine and bub wont know whats going on lol but still nothing..... 
How can i make him really want it.. i just want to show how sexually frustrated it can be mwahahaha lol. Any ideas? :)