What does it mean if my Boyfriend doesn't want sex?

Question

My boyfriend and I use to have sex at least 3 times a week now it dropped down to only having sex once a week. When I start doing things to him he says not right now. He will get hard but doesn't want sex? What cold this mean?

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It could just be he is stressed from work or bills or whatever. At least your still doing it. I would talk to him and ask if you guys could spice it up. After a couple has been together for a while their sex life's could get a little boring. Talk to him.

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Talk to him and see what's wrong. Don't assume anything is going on behind your back. That will just make you more stressed out.

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In the begining of my relationship me and my SO had sex almost 4 times a week. But recently he has been super busy with work. He gets up around 5am and doesn't get home until 8. When he gets home he is beyond exhausted, so when I try and initiate sex he does get hard and wants to have sex but sometimes he is just too tired to actually do it and tells no. I get frustrated sometimes but I realize he isn't always going to want to have sex. And at least once or twice a week is better then nothing.

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Stressed.
Busy.
Cheating.
Tired.
No longer into you. 
Health issue.
It could be anything none of us are going to know only he knows.

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I believe it's normal for you to have less sex as the relationship goes on. He could just not be feeling it. Ask him about it

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Talk to him! Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.

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Probably he's stressed or not attracted anymore.

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I'd get a new boyfriend probably sleeping around not someone I'd be trying to have a kid with if he doesn't want sex what makes u think hell want a baby

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Stress and/or depression are big mood killers.

What does it mean if my Boyfriend doesn't want sex?

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