Can you relate?

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Hey ladies, first off I’d like to apologize if this drags on a little bit. It’s been a while since I’ve been on here and I would like to talk to people I’m not related to and have never met. 
So according to Glow I am 75 days late today. Ever since i got off birth control in August 2017 I have had irregular periods. Aunt Flo decides to pop in when she wants to. But luckily I’ve always been at home. (I’m a custodian at work & we wear white) 😳. About a month ago, I took a digital pregnancy test and it said “ Not Pregnant.” But within the last 3 weeks I haven’t been normal self. I’m normally a pretty happy person, BUT..... I have been nothing but angry/ frustrated. Most of the time it’s at work, but occasionally I bring it home. And sometimes T that very moment there’s nothing for me to be angry/frustrated about. On Sun, June 3rd while at work I was put in a position that made me very uncomfortable. I was getting the finger pointed at me like I was the bad person. But in reality I did nothing wrong. I was slightly physically threatened and when I tried to stand up for myself I couldn’t find that words. Actually I could but had I voiced them I could have got myself in a A LOT of trouble.. so I acknowledge the issue & dropped it. I could tell that my lead (the bully) felt like she won when she left. Shortly after that I lost control of my emotions and cried so hard I couldn’t calm down. I was so angry and emotional that I was treated the way I was treated for no reason at all. I was doing everything I was suppose to be doing. I then talked to a manager that I thought would have compassion to help me, and in the end I felt they didn’t care.  Their response was “I’m sorry your just going to have to stick it out” I couldn’t believe that was the answer I got.. I lost all faith right there. I made the mistake of not taking care of the issue right then and there like I should have. Now this is something I normally would just let go and move on. But how I felt that day has really weighed me down and as much as I don’t want to dwell on it I just can’t help it. Each day at work I experience the same feelings. I am on anti-depressant and I know they are working cause I don’t feel depressed like I did prior to taking the pills. But like I said, the last 3 weeks have been nothing but anger and frustration. Thursday my co worker asked me “Could you be pregnant?” And I thought you know I never really thought about that. I also thought I have been more forgetful than normal to. So that day I was curious I took another digital pregnancy test AND...... not pregnant. 
So the moral of 5is drawn out story is, can any of you relate & if so what was your outcome? How did you handle it? Did you end up pregnant?
I wanna hear your stories?

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I highly suggest talking to your doctor. Pregnancy chances are low but hormones are not stable, could also be depression or PCOS

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sometimes when you get off or change birth control your hormones can get out of wack. this happened to me when I stopped my depo shot and had to go on the pill to regulate myself. I suggest you talk to your doctor and have them do a pregnancy test too just in case.

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This sounds like a typical PCOS symptom. Your probably high testosterone low estrogen.  Irregular periods are a big give away under 40. 
I will give you an early warning to reduce symptoms of high testosterone which leads to female baldness or hair thinning.
Try to limit sexual activity or “getting off” for yourself, as sex boosts testosterone within itself.  Also things like intense exercising. 
Once your doctor runs tests on you and your diagnosed, medicated go back to enjoying life.  You don’t have to stop any of that but reduce it, your doctor will still pick up elevated hormones due to your sensitivity.  
But it is fact that to much sex can trigger balding in men under 30. Thanks to testosterone, until your properly diagnosed its best to take things in your own hands. By limiting stress, sex, frustrations.  So you can delay the more depressing symptoms, like hair loss, facial hair, etc. 
You also don’t need to stop if your trying for a kid just limit climax, until you get blockers.
When I was diagnosed with ovarian failure, not just pcos I had a lot of anger and such due to elevated male hormones.  (From sex, believe it or not!) Since the ovaries were not producing female hormones as well as they should. Nothing was getting filtered or balanced. 
If you have a crappy doctor you can use royal jelly as a temporary solution as it loses strength over time. But it’s solid ovary nutrition.  While you look for a better doctor.   
So week on and a week off works, you will be able to get the effects from the nutrition longer.  It’s just important you take a break of equal amount x when you use it.
Granted I am still perimenopause, but I still get my periods every 50 or so days.  I was diagnosed when I was 27.  I think I would of full swung into menopause before I was 30.  Except I used the above supplement. I am now 32, and my cycles haven’t really got worse. They are better then the 6 months I had to wait. When I was diagnosed to begin with. 
Also longer cycles have increased risk of cervical cancer, so any respectable doctor will screen you for it the minute you hit 5-6 months w/o a period and not being pregnant.

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