Feeling lonely though I’m married...

Before anyone suggest that I talk to my husband... I have... on NUMEROUS occasions. There are times when he can hear me crying at night (though I’m trying my hardest to stay quiet) so trust me, he’s aware of how I’m feeling. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I know happiness is the first important thing but so is what’s right for my child. Ig I’m stuck btwn what needs to happen in order for me to feel happy with myself. We both work full time, have a 2 year old son, I’m currently 11 wks pregnant, and I feel very lonely. Today when we got up, i got dressed, got our son dressed and took him with me to run errands. When we got home my husband was STILL on the game just like when we left. Now I don’t mind him playing the game but he didn’t greet me or look my way, didn’t offer to cook anything or run any errands for me, didn’t offer to at least HELP dressed our child, or anything. So I didn’t say anything. Basically I laid in the bed of boredom after playing with our son for a while. Then my son began watching cartoons on the phone & my husband hogged the tv. It wasn’t until I started falling asleep that my husband suggested that we watch something together. When we finally turned on a movie (2 hrs later) he’d fallen asleep saying how tired he was. That’s totally fine bc I’m also tired but I dontmind staying up so we can take turns resting. The problem is... when was I going to get my break? Here we are at 630pm and I never got a break. So I was constantly keeping my child occupied, fixing him lunch & snacks, dealing with his fussiness bc he didnt finish his nap from earlier, and my husband doesnt even see or appreciate that. He leaves for a month annual drill with the military next month & we know this month is flying by. So you’d think he spend this free month not hogging the tv from the time he gets off work to almost the time we go to slp. He’s not only selfish with me but he’ll hog it from our son sometime. And he’ll admit that he’s being selfish but the problem persists. Again I don’t mind him playing the game but when I am constantly on my feet he’s asking me, “Can u change Lucas (our son)..” I always do it and run back n forth but of course not only am I tired too... I’m pregnant!! Running off little energy & nausea. I just feel alone and sort of like what’s the point for him to be around if I’m gonna do everything alone. I can’t go into another room bc we stay with my MIL & Lord knows every time we come out the room she wants to “gossip” abt other ppls lives that she doesn’t even know near her complex. I’m not really one to gossip abt strangers bc its just negative and I want this pregnancy as stress free as possible. I always ask her nicely if we can talk abt something else or i change the subject and she gets upset. Plus tlkin to her is like tlkin to a brick wall. The conversations are one way... help!!!