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Question

So I’m ready to get it on with the hubby but he’s always too tired and doesn’t have time to “make love” to me☹️ im willing to do all the work too but he just isn’t in the mood like wth????? I’m feeling desperate and lonely. Idk what to do!!! What should I do?

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It could be that he’s overly stressed or even depressed. I’ve just went through the same thing with my significant other and it took me breaking down and actually having a long discussion with him about it. I told him how it was making me feel(unwanted, unattractive, so on and so forth). He told me his stress was really high and he didn’t realize he was neglecting me, and wasn’t meaning to. He said he was too focused on his own issues with stress and some depression that he didn’t realize he was only focused on his issues at that moment. I told him that I understand that, but it doesn’t help if we’re both stressed/depressed because the way things were going I was getting pretty depressed myself. After a long few hours of conversation, we finally came to an agreement to spend some time together every few nights, and put our stresses aside for the night. I would try to discuss this with him and if that doesn’t work I would try to spice things up some. He could just be bored of the same routines. Maybe surprise him with some nice lingerie? Maybe surprise him by waking him up one morning with some oral sex? Take him out for a date night and wear something sexy. Tease him all night when on that date. Trying something new may make it to where he starts coming to you instead of you coming to him. Good luck!

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Have communicatuon with him, set a time but not demanding. seek counseling? after some time of hardly being intimate, we communicated, we sought out each other's minds and personal desires and read up on ways I can please him physically... (between us, no porn or outside bogus like other people fiddling in our relatuonship). Gradually we became physical, and more emotionally connected, and talked some during intimacy so we both enjoy each other all the more! we've only been married 4yrs, and this far better then when dated or in the beginning of our marriage! Every thing is the way it's meant to be when were Spiritually involved together (not that new age crap)! All these, Spiritually, and outwardly living in God's waystogether is how we've found comparability, friendship, parentsalship, and harmony. If  there's none of these existed for us, we couldn't be where we are otherwise 4yrs later. I hope you both seek out for the best of each other.

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