Getting a visit from AF after actively trying

My husband and I are finally trying for a baby. I’ve been nervous since the beginning that we’ll have trouble conceiving as he’s type one diabetic and I get terrible ovarian cysts. We haven’t been overly careful over the last 2 years, but he wasn’t ready to commit to actively trying until now.

Now that we’re officially trying, I did everything right from temping, raspberry leaf tea, and Fenugreek. Wanted to cover my bases and start strong. Well, that didn’t work.

He, of course, is optimistic that it’s still early and we’ll get it “next time”. I’m nervous this is just the first of many disappointing negative months I’ll have.

Ladies, how long before I should really be nervous? Am I overreacting?