YOU DO YOU

I’m just putting this out there. You can put your opinion wherever. I refuse to argue but we can have an adult conversation and learn to agree to disagree.

THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY OR WRONG WAY.

Marriage doesn’t even have to happen because it’s just a piece of paper saying you have the same last name and you can file taxes jointly.

You don’t need education to be successful even though it is a plus. Having a baby at young age is okay, having a baby later in life is okay and not having a baby at all in life is okay!

Whether you intended for these things to happen or not that’s okay! It is not your job, it’s your life. Love it, cherish it and have faith in yourself.

I was pregnant while walking the stage of my high school graduation even though I did not know it. I had my beautiful baby girl unplanned at 19 years young. BUT I WOULD NEVER CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD. I work to provide for my family. I am going to college currently and getting my education in the medical field. Tyler and I have been together for nearly 5 years and we act like a married couple. You don’t need to be married to have a kid. I also will add Tyler and I plan on getting married after college. AND THATS OKAY. But you also don’t need a SO to have a kid and be successful. You can be a single parent and live a wonderful life with your kid and guess what? THATS OKAY. Don’t let anybody tell you what you can and cannot do because they aren’t you. Only you can decide what you do and don’t do: planned or unplanned, kid or no kid, married or not married, college or no college. BECAUSE ITS ALL GOING TO BE OKAY.