Am I selfish ?

Question

Am I selfish for feeling sorry for myself? 
- husband left me
- family disowned me 
- no friends
- constantly alone
But I have my newborn daughter, I can't help but feel sorry for myself but then I feel selfish for doing so, I guess I'm just going through stages of grief with this divorce I have no where to turn

Answer

It's ok to feel sad as long as you don't stay in that place forever. You eventually have to find out who you are and figure out how to move on. I find that it helps if I write down all my feelings and emotions and get to the root of it all so I can move on.

Answer

No your not selfish , you have your beautiful daughter but of course your going to emptyness when it comes to being social and relationships with friends or a significant other , so you are going to fwel that way but you shouldnt if this is how it is that means no one was really by your side as friend or family or as husband so dont feel bad for yourself feel bad ffor them missing out on somone awesome like yourself and you beautiful baby

Answer

Having a beautiful baby is wonderful, but she is not going to take away all other problems.  As long as you continue to function, work, care for your LO, then there is nothing selfish about being sad.

Answer

Absolutely not!!

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