So I’ve been with my man for over 2 years. We just had a baby 5 months ago. I’m going to make a long story short. He’s out of town working and I’m here raising my baby alone which is okay bc he’s working. I flew out and stayed with him a week. He showed me the best time and spoiled me with gifts on top of gifts. No sex the entire week. He didn’t even try. The sex disappeared before the baby like well over a year ago. We planned and mad her one night and that was the last time we had sex. He’s not cheating he’s been used by women his entire life bc he has a huge heart. He’s into looks and I have extra weight on me right now. We were not skinny when we met but now he’s losing weight and I’m working on it but for myself not him. Anyway he said he’s not attracted to me sexually anymore so he’s asking me to go to counseling with him to see if they can help us get our fire back. Ha! If it’s gone it’s gone. I had the same problem last year and before he left I didn’t want to have sex with him bc I lost the desire too. He’s a good man he takes care of us

and all the above but that’s not enough. I don’t want to raise my child alone so I’m willing to get a little help but if that doesn’t work I’m leaving.