Boyfriend didnt talk to me all day

Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been living with each other for a few months now. This morning he woke up, didnt say good morning or anything and left for work. So u immediately called him to see if everything was okay and he said yes....then he didnt text or call me fir the rest of the day. I was very confused and annoyed because u just found out that one of my friends died and talking to him would've been a great way to take my mind off of it. So when he got home I asked him "why haven't I heard from you all day" and he goes "I was tired...and irritated because the house is a mess" I didnt say anything else after that because at that point I needed time to cool off. so I eventually came back to him and said "Just because you were tired isn't an excuse to not talk to me for a day, and I feel very unnappreciated because all I do is clean. So for you to say that the housel is a mess hurts my feelings. I just lostmy one of my friends and talking to you today would've made me feel better" and I walked away. he hasn't apologized and just came to bed without saying anything to me. I had to get up because I'm so annoyed right now