42 weeks really

Kacey • Married to my high school sweetheart. Mom to a beautiful baby boy, our angel baby in heaven 👼🏻, and to furry babies. Trying to get our rainbow baby! Military family
So im 38 weeks and 4 days and little an is measuring a week early so he's like 39 weeks 3 days. Still not dilated yet and I've tried everything! We live on post since my husband is in the military and they don't induce until 42 weeks. Is that even safe??? I'm so miserable I just want my son here already.