My fiance and I are TTC so for fun we've had names picked out for when we are blessed enough to get pregnant. But a girl we know (my fiancé was best friends with her brother before he died) just had a baby and she didn't tell anyone her daughters name until she was born and it just so happens to be a name we honestly had picked out as well. What do we do now?! I know it sounds so silly and petty and honestly I would still want to use it should we get pregnant but I feel like she'd think we're copying her. Even though we honest to god had it on our list and she had never told anyone that what she was using. Just curious what others would do in this situation?