I had two miscarriages, one still birth, and two boys. My husband and I just kinda sorta came to an agreement after our recent losses that If I get pregnant again good and if not oh well. We aren’t in a rush yet, although we do want another baby. we hope for a girl this time but as long as it healthy that’s all we care about in the end. Truth be told we plan to not know the gender when and if the day comes. This past month we kinda tried to do the baby making dance before ovulation and during. ( leaving it on gods hands. I think the stress I put myself under and worries make things harder to convince so I kinda just free styling it now and winging it.) so, my question is... how long did it take you to conceive? How many tries did it take? Did you plan every detail and take ovulation kits to Conceive or did you just wing it and did your thing?