Would you forgive your SO if he cheated on you?

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So I have a friend who adores her SO but has just found out he has been cheating with another woman but with no sexual contact according to him. She loves him but she is unsure on what to do. What would you advise?

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If he's gonna treat you like a joke then leave him like it's funny

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I couldn't forgive my SO just because I know I wouldn't be able to get past that he did that to me. I would always be suspicious and I couldn't trust him anymore. Some women do and they are very strong women to forgive them and move on past it but like I said for me I couldn't.

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Every situation is vastly different. How many times did he cheat, what did he do? Is he filled with regret and want to make it right? It's been heard of a person cheating and turned their relationship around, but you also have typical more common "cheaters" who will always cheat. I personally would lose all trust in my husband, I'm not sure what I would do, but I always say I would only divorce him if he cheated or beat me.

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Before my husband and I got engaged, I found an email that was sent to some girl in a city that he was going to be working in for a week. For the next three or four months, I cried, I screamed, I went bat shit crazy with jealousy and insecurities. I didn't leave him, because I knew I needed to work this out with him and try again. He came home one day, towards the end of my four month tirade, in tears (and this is a guy who doesn't cry often) and sobbed out an apology, begged me not to leave him and to give him another shot. I forgave him. I told him I'd never forget. We got married last year, and haven't had an issue since. I snoop once in awhile to keep him in check and to ease any of my creeping doubts. I haven't checked in months, don't feel the need to. If the relationship is right, give it another shot. Bail him if he screws up twice. No one gets more than a second chance.

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I would say no but then if it came to it I really don't know - we have a home - a family - a life - don't know if I could walk away

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No. If he cheated, there'd be no trust. The foundation of my marriage is trust.

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Cheating once is ️maybe forgivable but more then once idk. It depends if your SO actually feels sorry and wants to work on things if I could forgive something like that.

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My advice would be a man only treats you how you allow him to treat you! If he cheats and you allow him back! He is gonna keep doing it! Thats just my personal opinion! I refuse to deal with a cheater!I dont have time to worry about what he is doing everytime he leaves the house! I got more important things to worry about! At the end of the day its truly your choice no matter if you get positive feedback or negative  feedback! Good luck

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Nope, trust is the thing in a relationship that is needed.

Cheating is not okay. 
I'd leave him like it's funny and just say that it's not okay to cheat and I won't put up with it.

But in these past 3 years, I've not once experienced my man cheating on me, I've got all his info but I rarely go into any of it.
Because I have full trust in him.

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I got married in 2013. Six months later he cheated on me. He was 24 at the time and went and dated a 17 year old. Minor! I begged and pleaded for about a month or two to come back to his family cuz we have a daughter together. I finally gave up and have been with my current SO for almost a year. It'll be a year this month. So yeah I tried forgiving even told him I forgave him but he was all for the freedom and no responsibility. My daughter and myself couldn't be happier with my SO now!

Would you forgive your SO if he cheated on you?

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