Did he mean to hurt/harm our [possible] baby?

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I am 28 and my SO of 10 months is 36. We have been officially TTC #1 for 3 months. Well I am 8po (BFN) but I know it's early to test.  He saw the test and ask if I was pg, and I told him no. (I wanted it to be a surprise when we have our 1st baby.) So later this morning he was laying in bed and I was standing in front of him and he punched me in my LOWER abdomen. Not hard but enough to make me flinch. In reflex, I punched his fist away and yell at him to not hit me[in my uterus, specifically]. And he punched me again, but lighter even then before, and I hit him super hard on his back and walked off.

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If my partner did that I'd have kicked his head in and left him

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If a guy randomly punches you why are you with him and why are you trying to have a baby with him?

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Your question is 'did he mean to hurt our baby?' But you had told him earlier that day that you were NOT pregnant, so as far as he's aware there is no baby. So no, he most likely was not trying to harm your baby.

That being said, I wouldn't stay with a guy who hit me. My husband and I wrestle and play fight, but I wouldn't need to ask a bunch of strangers if he was trying to hurt a child. I know my husband, and I know he would NEVER do that. If you have some questions as to whether or not he would hit you, your unborn child, or your future children, why are you ttc with him? We weren't there, so we don't know if he was goofing off and thought he was being funny, or if he was trying to hurt you. You need to ask yourself some tough questions, and decide if you want to make a baby with someone you don't trust with your fetus.

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This is a HUGE red flag in my opinion!!

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Only you can answer that. Was he being mean, or playful? Did it hurt you? Did he apologize? Etc. Im not sure how to answer because none of us were there. My boyfriend and i playfully wrestle and everything so im not sure if thats the sorta thing he was trying to do. If he genuinally meant to hurt you though, that is a problem.

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Are you stupid?

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If I was you I wouldn't be with someone like that.

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I definitely wouldn't be with him still.

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HOLY SH*T,
Why are you trying to conceive with this pos excuse for a man????
OMG, of course he was trying to hurt a possible fetus that in your uterus, there's no other reason for him to do THAT.
Seriously leave him and go to a safe place away from this person.

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Of course he was trying to induce a miscarriage. Get somewhere safe. He will likely do it much harder next time. He was not fist pounding your fetus

Did he mean to hurt/harm our [possible] baby?

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